The morning of your wedding is one of the most emotional, surreal, and memorable parts of the entire day, but it’s often overlooked in the planning process. Everyone focuses on the ceremony, the reception, the dress… but what about those quiet hours before it all begins?
In this post from the Behind the Vows series, we’re talking about what really happens the morning of your wedding and how to make it calm, meaningful, and actually enjoyable.
You might cry. You might feel nothing. You might feel everything. And it’s all normal.
The buildup, the nerves, the quietness, this is the moment it all becomes real. Whether you're getting ready with a room full of friends or alone with a playlist and coffee, give yourself space to feel what you feel.
If you’re writing vows, reread them that morning. It’ll center you.
Forget last-minute tasks. Don’t stay up adjusting the seating chart. Your job the night before? Sleep, hydrate, and unplug.
Pack your day-of essentials in one bag:
Photographers usually arrive during hair and makeup, and those shots? They're some of the most meaningful of the day.
Expect:
These aren't just "prep" photos; they're part of your story. So have your space tidy, your details gathered, and your energy open.
Hair and makeup take longer than expected. Someone will forget a tie. The flower girl might cry. Build in buffer time, like 30 extra minutes everywhere.
And don't be afraid to pause. Even five quiet minutes alone can reset your nerves and help you be present.
The morning of your wedding isn’t just “getting ready.” It’s a sacred pause before the celebration begins. Slow it down. Let it breathe. And trust the magic is already happening.
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